Archive-name: edu/howto/eat_pussy
Archive-author: Tammy, Linda and Nicole
Archive-title: How to Eat Pussy
How to Eat Pussy
by Tammy, Linda and Nicole
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most
gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her
body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her
anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it? There is nothing
that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I've seen plenty of
them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked
inside like a little girl's cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that
come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are
covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities and
tell her what makes her special.
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making.
They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to
her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting
and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips,
even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you
can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you
guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her
capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her
foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can
lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to
wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of it's
own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry
and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to
work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be
handled.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased.
The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make
designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her
pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her
bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further
excite her. After you've done this to the point where your lady is bucking
up from her seat and she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then
put your lips right on top of her slit.
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy
lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers
of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you
do with a woman you're about to eat must be done gently.
Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her
because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See
if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it's covering. If so, lick
it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So
bring your tongue up the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may
barely experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl,
you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and
press into her skin.
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood
covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When
you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and
take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's
face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she
digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air
with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang
on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be
saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock
sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do
well. I know a man who's a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy
like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are
falling all over him.
But back to your pussy eating session...There's another thing you can do to
intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's
enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really
like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman
has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what
you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty
far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore
can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you don't irritate her skin.
Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them
rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing.
She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and
finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation
than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it
that she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out for
symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when
she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red
or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive
lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that
clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the
first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving
your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your
fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are
extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A
woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you
realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was
clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have
on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
Some women like to have their man rub and enter their anal section with
their finger while they are being eaten out!
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her come, made her
your slave by giving her the best head she's ever had, don't leave her alone
just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love
to her quietly until she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go
to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a
woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few
moments after sex.
Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's
what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your
lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.
Now get to it and make your partner smile and love you forever!
With Love,
Tammy, Linda and Nicole
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